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emil


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Last night I went back to Al anon and even though it was a business/inventory meeting; I got so much out of it.  I think it was such clarity and understanding that the focus of the meetings has to be about me. The reason I need to attend is to heal and not focus on anger and restment.   It is so great to listen and be supportive to others and learn from others too.  I know now that I need to be more consistent and I think in time I will stop obsessing about his issues.  I know it is under minding to continue to ask him if he is drinking.  I am going to start to find interests that I enjoy and I can find out more about myself.



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Good Work Emil

Meetings, breaking the isolation, learning to focus on ourselves are all powerful tools of alanon.

  Glad you returned.



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Jerry F


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Keep going back emil...along with the other interesting things you learn to do.   ((((hugs)))) smile



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Good job! Keep going back!

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Keep up the great work!

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emil


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Thank you for all the encouraging words. I can see how working myself helps in all my relationships, not just my husband. I had such a great week. I love the slogan " Say what you mean, mean what you say, and don't say it mean." I think i will continue to build my confidence as I continue to gain serenity and peace. I need to remember to continue to be positive even when life is difficult. Thanks everyone. Just a question, Is it okay to drink in front of the person that is trying to stop. I was thinking its okay since its impossible to control or try to set up a perfect enviornment.

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