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~*Service Worker*~

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The lie of drinking


I posted this on the AA board but wanted to post it here too because I know some of you can relate because you've seen this to be true in your qualifiers.  I love this poem though it makes me very sad:

I drank for happiness and became unhappy;
I drank for joy and became miserable.
I drank to be out-going and became self-centred;
I drank for sociability and became argumentative and lonely;
I drank for sophistication and became crude and obnoxious.
I drank for friendship and made enemies,
I drank to soften sorrow and wallowed in self-pity;
I drank for sleep and awakened without rest.
I drank for strength and felt weak.
I drank for masculinity and it sapped my potency;
I drank medicinally and got sick.
I drank because I thought my job called for it and lost my job.
I drank to stimulate thought and blacked out.
I drank to make conversation and got to where I couldn't talk at all;
I drank to forget and became haunted.
I drank for freedom's sake and became a slave.
I drank for power and became powerless;
I drank to erase problems and saw them multiply.
I drank to cope with life and invited death...



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Wow, this is really amazing, and sad, and true. Thank you.

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~*Service Worker*~

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Unfortunately oh so true. 

Thank God I found Alanon and developed new coping tools, so that I could accept the contradictions of  this deadly disease.



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~*Service Worker*~

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thank you for posting

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Thank you for sharing.

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Thank you for sharing this.

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~*Service Worker*~

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Thank you so much for posting this Mark!!
Hugs P :)

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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo



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thanks for posting this Mark. It reminds of a very young distant family member's remark the other day that made me feel so sad and the need to accept being powerless all over again.

Dear Alcohol,We had a deal where you would make me funnier, smarter, and a better dancer....
I saw the video. Weneed to talk...

Jen



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this is so powerful! thank you for sharing!



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