The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I feel proud of myself this morning... and happy... I feel very happy:
My husband said goodbye to me this morning and I felt an urge to ask if he was going to his outpatient group, but I did not say a word, because it is none of my business. He ended up saying he was headed there on his own to me.. Then he talked about meeting a friend he had made in rehab afterward for lunch. I had an urge to ask if this friend was still on the right path and going to meetings.. But I did not say it. It is none of my business. I told my husband that I am happy he has made friends (since he used to say he was unable to make new friends,) kissed him on the cheek, and wished him a good day.
Then I put on a green, polka dot dress, made myself a cup of coffee, and listened to Bob Marley all the way to work.
Keeping my side of the street clean and staying off of his side. It feels good.
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Michelle!
No one can take away your peace of mind unless you let them.
Yey Michelle! That is wonderful! I love the hoola hoop saying hotrod. I heard it in a meeting a few months ago and it is something I use quite often. It saves me from a lot of unhealthy stuff playing out. and it keeps things so much more simpler. Bob Marley is great. I had the song "Don't worry be happy" on my ring tone for the longest time. Anyone who called loved it! Keep up the great work Michelle, you are helping me and you are growing so much!
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It is very difficult to have a pity party when I am celebrating all the gratitude I have in my life!
It will aither work out, . . . or, . . . It will work out."