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I have talk to my sponsor and she has told me that I am doing better. I can actually feel the progress of my strength. I am not giving in as of yet. He is getting nervous because he is losing control. I have been told since he is losing control he is going to be getting worse. So I should prepare myself. I am going to work on that. I don't want to give in. Thanks to everyone here for helping me.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
(((NY)))) You are doing awesome girl. You just keep doing your part and let HP do his. There is strength in numbers, and we all have your back :) Love Christy
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If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them. And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.
Since I have been gone, I haven't been following all your posts. It is great when we can see our progress too. I know I cannot always seem mine sometimes until someone points it out to me. It is hard when we are right in the situation to see how far we have come. Great work nycbt! Whooohoooo :) Give yourself a great big pat on the back and a HUG. (((((((((nycbt, supportive hugs))))))) Nice seeing you again, cdb :)
Your sponsor is right! When I started letting go and letting God, when I stopped trying to control and rescue my A, things got worse. There were times when I wanted to get in there and help, now I pause and ask myself "am I interuppting my HP work?" You have so much support. Hang in there, be gentle with yourself, and take it one day at a time (a moment at a time if need be)