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New Board Moderator


Hi all.... we were all rocked a couple of months ago with the sudden passing of our friend Rodney (RLC), and continue to miss him so much.  Betty and I wanted to add another moderator to the mix early in the New Year, and the time now seems right....

Really pleased to announce that we have a new Board Moderator, effective immediately.....   Glad Lee (Debbie)  has agreed to become a Moderator, and we are thrilled to have the help.  She has been a valuable member of our family for a long time on MIP, and will be a valuable addition to our group. When I look at the three qualities (listed below), I definitely think Glad Lee is an excellent choice.  She will be paid the same lofty salary as all of us for this position ($0), so her accepting this role is greatly appreciated.

Please welcome Debbie and involve her as you would me or any of the other Moderators.

 

Tom

 

p.s. For those wondering, I put together what I believe to be the primary functions of the position.

Duties of a Board Moderator:

1. Edit/Delete posts as required - Most of my edits would be for aggressive language - i.e. swearing, etc - this is important as we need to maintain MIP as a "safe place" for so many who are scared and possibly timid when they arrive here... Other reasons for edits would be content, if they are 'over the top' with advice giving, religious content, copyright concerns, or inappropriate or stuff not applicable to recovery in any way... This one is a hangup for some, as perhaps it would be easier with formal 'black and white' rules around this, but our reality is that very little of our world is truly black & white only, and we have to use our common sense and discretion. Note that I get at least as many PM's from others advising me of posts to "take a look at", as I find myself, as I am a fairly regular reader, but find that it is almost impossible to read every post, per se.... Normal practice is for me to advise people when/if I have deleted and/or edited their posts, and 99% of the time people understand and are completely reasonable about it... I don't extend the same courtesy for the very occasional time where somebody is just on here trying to give others grief, but I can literally count the number of those incidents on one hand, in the five or so years I have been doing this...

1a. Communicate with other Moderators - this one is sort of a natural add-on to #1 above, but in order to maintain some sort of consistency, it really helps when the Mods talk to each other, and keep each other abreast of any incidents and/or folks to be aware of on the board, etc.

2. Liase with John - this role is less relevant, but as a moderator I am often times the first person that members ask site related questions, re: security, chat room, etc... I don't tend to know many answers to these questions, and typically don't have the "power" (knowledge OR technical approval) to change things for them, but I do often PM with John and he can resolve most of the issues.

Qualities of a Board Moderator

1. Consistent & Positive - Morally sound, recovery-based, non-judgmental

2. Good & Fair Common Sense Approach

3. Strong Proponent of Recovery in General, and Al-Anon related recovery, MIP, etc.

 


 



-- Edited by canadianguy on Tuesday 24th of January 2012 03:45:39 PM

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GREAT!!, what a good choice. Glad Lee thank you for your service. I am very sure you,Tom and Betty will always be fair and help keep our home safe!

debilyn hehe learned how to "control" her default emotions. hahahaha



-- Edited by Debilyn on Tuesday 24th of January 2012 04:33:09 PM



-- Edited by Debilyn on Tuesday 24th of January 2012 04:34:09 PM

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Thanks all of you... for all you do!!!

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Oh my, I had no idea that Rodney had passed. I just thought it was weird that I hadn't seen him on here for a while. Thank you, Debbie for taking the time to be a moderator for us. It is greatly appreciated!

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Welcome Aboard Debbie! MIP will reap the benefits of your wonderful ESH's and all that stuff inbetween.

Lacewing
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That's great news for MIP! 

All the moderators have different styles.  I appreciate each of them!

Thanks to you all (moderators) for makng MIP an upstanding place for all of us.



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Glad Lee, Congrats! on your new position. And lofty salary, lol! Thanks to all the moderators here for everything you do to make/keep this such a special place.

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Thank you for taking this on, Debbie/Glad Lee!



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Glad Lee Rox!

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Thanks ((everyone)) I am so grateful for the opportunity to serve here, in addition to my face to face groups. I know I can
never give as much as I have received.

Godspeed as "we" recover together.

Love, Debbie

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I know I was involved in picking Glad Lee, but personally, I think we made an excellent choice :)

 

 

Welcome aboard!!

Tom



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canadianguy wrote:

I know I was involved in picking Glad Lee, but personally, I think we made an excellent choice :)

 

 

Welcome aboard!!

Tom


 Yes, indeed, you all made an excellent choice.  We (MIP members) are very fortunate to have you and the others to moderate this board.

I frequent a few other types of boards once in awhile.  It can get quite ugly.  So I know how it "could" be here at MIP.

Thanks Moderators!!!!!



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Welcome Debbie I am enriched by each of your posts.  Glad that you accepted.



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YAY!!  Glad Lee. 

I like your "New Shoes"  biggrin 



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