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gladysg


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I went to a real estate class at around 1 pm. He asked me what time was I coming home before I left. I told him around 4. When I got home the car jack was outside. When I went to put it back the jet ski was gone (we live up north). Then I went to his computer room and it was gone as well as his papers, and then the closet door was open and all his clothes were gone.

I wish I could say I'm sad but I'm not. He's not willing to work on being honest regarding finances and taking care of his health. I'm overwhelmed with the responsibility of caring for someone who doesn't care about anything egarding us. He is moving in with his sister in Florida. He's not supposed to drive (doctor's orders), but I guess he's there right now if nothing happened on the road.

I don't own the home we lived in. He does. I don't know how long I can stay here until I can or need to move. Just praying for calm in my heart. Lord knows this past few months have been horrible. I have been in an aggitated state, taking St. Johns wort during the day and Benadryl to sleep. It was too stressful. I wish him well.



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John


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(((((hugs)))))

I have to try to remember that each person is on their own journey and seeking their own relief, trying to find their way...

In my experience, endings were opportunities for new beginnings... a breath of fresh air... and a chance to relax, learn, heal and grow.

Stay close to us here, we are on a journey too.

John



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amills4294


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I have not been on the board that long and am not up to all that you have been through but know that we are here and please post as much as you feel you need to. It is a tough thing no matter what the circumstances. It's a loss whether it's for good or bad... it still must hurt. Rest, try to heal, take care of yourself as best you can and know there are those here thinking of you too.

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Michelle814


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John wrote:
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I have to try to remember that each person is on their own journey and seeking their own relief, trying to find their way...
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I am constantly reminding myself this too. So sorry youre past many months have been so challenging, I can tell you this.. So have mine.. you're not alone there. This time on your own may be absolutely beneficial to your recovery. Thinking of you and sending hope you're way.




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Sending you love and support!!!

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