The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
The topic at my meeting this morning was waiting. Everyone had a different perspective on this topic however we all identified with waiting for the drinker to get sober, better on a programme, to work it to change their behavior.
However today I realise that life is short I am focusing hard on my recovery the thing I do have control over. Its hard enough traveling my own spiritual journey building contections with Hp, attending meetings working my programme, service working running a home rearing two children. My abf will get back on his programme if he chosses its nothing to do with me. I had dreams that if I worked hard enough waitied proved my love he would get better but it seems to be 10 steps forward the so many back. I just want to focus on me my life recovery I am tired of waiting others have choices and I can not control them I just have to make the correct choices for myself so that i live a happy healthy life.
Aww .. hugs Tracy, it totally makes sense and it's something I really needed to hear thank you :)
Keep coming back you are worth it. :) P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
