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Debilyn


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OOps My son's AW figured out how to get into his email. He and I have written back and forth. I of course sounded like I do here.

Thank goodness, but of course she still took it badly, afterall it was truths she never wants him to know.

He said he didn't ever care, she should not have been reading his stuff. But oh well. He said he has nothing to hide.

He still lives at his own place. She brought it up when they went to dinner last night. Sooo of course she lost it in the restaurant.

He has such a great attitude, he knows it is her problem not his. He let go and let God.

She now thinks I hate her. I never said that. Just used facts and said I wish she was not so sick becuz I really liked and loved her.

Not my style to put anyone down. She told him I am crazy and a Jehovah's Witness. Like those two things are bad! lol thoink you dahling!

Just sharing. Now my boy, well my kid well my adult son, ouch, is coming up to take BonnieJo my huge Newfy body dog with at tiny lab head..., fishing!

We never run out of things to talk about. Wish daughter had not moved so far away.

Anyway thats the story., hugs, debilyn who can just now walk after a few days of being poisoned by bad shrimp. Man that is a rough illness! Apparently in my feverness I sent some emails that I hear I don't want to know the content......hmmm

 



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surfingmaestro


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You sound like you work a strong program and are a great resource for your son.  I commend you for handling things the way you have.  I know that AW used to snoop my email sometimes and at first it got me angry but I don't have anything to hide and I decided to just turn it over to my HP.  Her problem, not mine.  



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GailMichelle


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Hi Debilyn -

I know you're a strong woman.  But I know it's got to hurt some that you don't have the relationship with your DIL that you'd like to have.

Hopefully, she will one day see what a supportive, lovely lady she has for a MIL.

Until then, continue being good to yourself and showing support to your son.  He is very fortunate to have you!

PS:  I automatically knew your avator is a snail.  Does it have a name? 



-- Edited by GailMichelle on Saturday 25th of June 2011 04:15:14 PM

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