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Debilyn


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There is some nut harrassing me online. I caught him pretending to be someone else and told him to go away.

Now he is on another site, my JW meeting site doing it.

So unbeknowest to me...He wrote that message I got and used pictures from a guy I thought was cool a long time ago. It was another lie.

Now I know why my body was sick!

BUT I also learned so much from you guys, your reminders really kick started me big time. I am joining the site today and will see who I can find.

I will report this dipstick. So far he has not said anything gross. I think it is some lost person, as once I asked him/her just to talk to me. He tried. but couldn't.

oy vey...spell? got licked awake at six freaking thirty....ugh.

love,deb who's raccoon is sticking her nose on my slider now..making dogs go NUTS, and what do I do,throw out more food.....



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Debilyn


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If you guys knew how much you helped me with this, you would charge me! (c: I just wrote to a man who looks and sounds very nice.

Like a very layed back sweetheart.  Only becuz ya basically said get over yourself and just go for it!



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Otie


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My dear Debilyn,  I am outraged at whoever the sick coward is who had perpetrated this lie on you!!!

I consider it a violation of boundries at the very least.  When something of this nature happens the sense of violation is great.  It is using the vulnerability of another person for their own selfish gratification.  The word for it is ABUSE.

Debilyn, there is not way that you deserve this.  It is not your fault that the B****** is twisted.

I believe that we are seening a treterous field (cyberspace) unlike we have never experienced before.  It is so new that we do not understand, fully, the power it has for evil, even though there is also potential for good.

I don't believe that we can operate in this new arena with the same criteria that we do with known and trusted face to face individuals.  I believe that we have to DEVELOP a protective layer of skepticism.  Ourself is the most percious possesion that anyone owns.  It must be protected first and foremost at all times!

Deb, you have the right to be furious---absolutely furious.  Please trust your instincts and intrinsic knowledge.  Be very suspicious of a silken tongue. 

Love and the maximun amount of hugs, Otie  



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