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Our program tonight at my Tuesday night meeting was on "Live And Let Live". It's never been my favorite slogan. "Don't React" and "How Important Is It" hold down #1 and #2 for me. Tonight it came to me how this program is so intertwined. If I live my life with the principles of this program at the forefront of my mind, I have no choice but to let others live their life without any interference form me, whether that be vocal or silently questioning their choices.
I realized tonight by connecting the dots of this program that "Live And Let Live" is "Letting Go And Letting God", is "Not Reacting", is "Admitting I Am Powerless", is "Taking Care Of Myself First", is "Putting The Focus On Myself" all rolled into one. If I always "Live And Let Live" I can have serenity and peace of mind........ all I have to do is accept and practice the above. Only four words.........four simple and very powerful words.
HUGS,
RLC
-- Edited by RLC on Wednesday 25th of May 2011 12:00:27 AM
-- Edited by RLC on Wednesday 25th of May 2011 10:01:04 AM
I just loved to read this first thing in the morning. I am pretty tired this AM staying up late last night with severe weather in my area. Thanks for posting it, you supercharged my batteries.
You are so right. The serenity that I have since that all came together for me has made my whole life better. Took a while of course, but gradually over a year or so it just came natural. Still does.
I am so glad you posted this. Takes a huge bunch of weight off the shoulders to live like this.
hugs sir, debilyn
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Aloha RLC...Thanks for the "Aha moment" share. I remember the times I've also had this one myself. I think of it as "spider webbing" One point connected to another to another and to another and when I step back and look with gratitude the program appears like a intricate spider web glistening in sunlight. You are absolutely right on how you describe it. (((hugs)))