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I will admit my ah behavior is fascinating he went from being a dry drunk of two months to a drunk in few hours ! He went from being miserable and depressed to a charming happy man he never was sober because he denies having a problem. I am detached from this now I am just observing. My daughter for the first time has acknowledged the problem so al alateen would be an answer for her when she is ready. I know few months ago I would have ignored the signs and change of behavior finding him excuses, stress, party, social etc. I an not angry or resentful anymore just sad. Watching somebody being sick is not a pleasant thing. It was his birthday yesterday and we both cried because we know we won't celebrate it together next year so we are mourning, difference is I reached to my Hp he reached for the bottle. I am so grateful for al anon.
Crazy Frog, I'm with you in understanding how sad this type of situation can be. But it sounds like you're handling it as well as you can. ¨...I reached to my Hp he reached for the bottle.¨ Good for you! Keep taking care of yourself and your daughter. And keep coming back.
A lot of people tell me I am handling it well. I am not certain about that my emotions are pretty raw but I get comfort here and face 2face meetings and sponsor. One day at a time
