The material presented
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to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I found my own meeting for tonight and I am going. Its open and so bf asked if he could join me. He went to his own meetings over the weekend with the guy he spoke with Friday night and Saturday morning.
I think something is changing in me and maybe in him as well. I feel as if a weight has been lifted, and I feel like I am going the right way now. Last night we spoke about things, he came to me, and I think me backing off of him and looking at only me is helping a lot of things. He said he never wants to feel sick again.
We had a good weekend and the guy that he is talking to invited him to other meetings this week as well, so I am glad. Now its my turn to find someone to call... :) Hopefully tonight I will. I don't know how to ask for people's numbers but I will see what happens. I will be brave because I need that for me :)
Thank you all for encouraging me to attend the open AA meeting. I am going back to that one this Friday and going to this tonight. I am so grateful and so ready to live life...
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-youfoundme
Let go and let God...Let it be... let it begin with me...
There is a saying from the 12-n-12 in the traditions section that 12 step recovery is not for those that NEED it, it is for those that WANT it. Congrats to you for stretching yourself and going to Open AA meetings. Perhaps you will find fellowship from Alanon there at the open meeting. That is the best way to get suggestions about other meetings in your area.
Something that has been very fun for me is to carpool to other meetings with my Alanon friends. We have a meeting before the meeting in the car. On the ride home we get another meeting. I do so hope you connect with Alanon fellowship while you are there.
