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My "whatever" back and forth A will spend a little time together. I am going to take some time to myself rather than waste it getting irritated with him and his behavior. I will spend half with him and half on my own.
Guess we are trying for the millionth time to keep this thing going. Ugh! I am going in with a better attitude this time. It's not all about pleasing him. It's about pleasing me.
Anyone have special plans? Let's hear them. I love hearing about what others are up to!
I'm starting my happy weekend today by re-doing the rock borders along a path in our yard and cementing them into place. Yeah, it's work, but work I enjoy. Tomorrow I go to the big market a half hour away from here to buy blue corn. Sunday ah and I may go to the barbecue in town. But that's two days away, too far to plan ahead when ah is involved. But I'm going to have a good weekend, whatever I do.
I'm going to an Al-Anon fellowship function tonight -- yay! It's also a fundraiser for our district's Public Outreach.
The rest of the weekend will be devoted to a household project; I'm giving my back hall a much-needed makeover.
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Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could... Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. - Emerson
I am going to make peanut butter rice krispie treats tonight and catch up with some friends on the phone. I will share myself tomorrow and I am planning on Sunday to myself. Maybe watch a movie and hang around on the couch. I can't wait!!!!
I worked at my business by myself today. Get a lot done that way. Catch up. Pay bills. Uncle Sam due Monday..uuug. Went home. AW working tonight so it's just me, Ellie and Daisy my two black labs. Detachment won't come into play with my labs. Cook out on the grill.....and then most important, take care of myself first....baking my favorite......a pineapple upside down cake....As I say "ain't nottin better"....then pig out.
laughing at the thought of RLC trying to be DETACHED with not one but TWO black labs - dogs don't do detached! Double that for labs.
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I am strong in the broken places. ~ Unknown
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another! ~ Anatole France