The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
My A decided a while back to go into his old profession that does not mix well with his disease or with another shortcoming is concerned that is a huge factor in our relationship. I was deeply upset at his choice. The job he has now is for a wonderful family man that has strong values. He has lots of flexibility where our family is concerned and the man treats him very well.
He is very good at his old profession and can get a job doing it without issue as he is in high demand. I didn't think it would take long for him to secure a new job.
Interesting that with all of the resumes he put out and all of the interviews he went on, he couldn't get a job. I was stunned at that. He didn't end up getting a job at all in the old industry.
Yesterday he shared with me that he landed the job he wanted doing what he felt would build him a solid "career". He got it before but the man was not upfront and was playing games with him.
He told the man he was no longer interested. He did share with me that he intends on keeping the job he has and has decided not to go back into his old profession. He shared his new views about the career he already has and how he recognized his current employer to be treating him well and how good the job is for our family.
Hp guided in this situation. I am so grateful. Will be interesting to see how Hp guides him back to AA. I am curious to see how that is going to unfold, as I never would have imagined this job situation to have turned out like this.
