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Debilyn


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Woke up with a bad stomach, weak. But becuz of Al Anon I think ok this is how it is. Didn't try to figure out why, or fight it. I just did not feel good.

So I took tiny steps. Cleaned all the drawers in the kitchen out, some cubboards too. Took all the pics down and stuff off my walls and shelves packed'em.tossed out a few things.

My friend and I went up to the cabin. Pretty day. It felt right. Not happy or excited today. But it was really just ok. I knew I would be ok up there. My friend told me the waters color is called azure. It is too, so clear, so turquoise blue.

She took me to lunch noodles and vegies, iced tea with lemon. yum simple.

Keep it simple.

My world here became too complicated. Listening to HP, my path is clear. You guys saw me thru the terror and frightened time. thankyou.

Al Anon  tools and skills help me every day, even though I don't have an A in my life. Taught me to focus on me, on the moment. Most of course is my deep belief in the Bible truths.

But there are endless tools we can glean from Al anon and I have things come up, I react in a way that took years of having to think to do first, that now are natural.

But today I feel weak so I am.

As always I am learning. Its strange to feel so terrified to acceptance, to it will all be ok. It will all be wonderful. It will all be soooo cool to have people come up and camp, figh, stay in the cabin.

Its not just a vacation for me from the city, its my home.

I am so blessed.  LOVE, debilyn



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(((Debilyn))) Fear of the unknown is a common scary thing for all of us.  I have read your posts and replies for a long time.... you are a very strong individual and you have a good head on your shoulders.   Your outlook on life and the way you handle situations thown in your path, is the insight I look for to learn how to achieve serenity in MY life. You will make your move bravely and once there, you will thrive. Peace to you, Debilyn.....

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Sending you lots of hugs, Debilyn! Good luck to you!

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PINK HUGS to you my precious friend!!!

Please take good care of YOU!

Remember YOU deserve it!!



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Debilyn


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You guys cannot know how much all your words mean to me, even when they were hard to hear.

Now you got me in tears. Its so nice to know there are people who do care about others out there. Even if we have only met in our hearts.

love,deb

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(((((Debilyn))))

Yes, keep it simple, I love simple, it's the only way I can survive sometime.

You are going to be fine, you have come so far.

Yes there are so many Bible truths that we can only learn if we go through them.

Take good care of yourself, your new home sounds wonderful, please keep us posted about what is going on with you.

Dreams

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Hi Debilyn.

I just wanted to say that I saw the pics of your cabin and it's beautiful. I'm glad you are getting some peace in your life.

Keep it simple is perfect. You are doing wonderfully. Very much an inspiration.

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Debilyn


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Don't know what is making me sick, but my stomach is a mess. doc put me on a new med, and am taking melatonin at night. Sleep has been nice.

Just on the edge of crying. Watched a show, the show asked what is your pain? What are you drinking away, other drugging away?

What is your pain?




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So your packing, how exciting...you get to live in a place most go to vacation :)  its feels good....how nice for you.......:)  btw are those basset hounds ?  and are they all yours is my next question....wow if so,what a darling group :)

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