The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I feel there is someone on here under false pretenses. I no longer feel safe to post on here, and how sad is that? This has been my home for years to post my feelings about addiction and what's going on in my life and I no longer feel safe anywhere now. My sense of security has been completely stripped, not only by an A, but by someone I wanted out of my life forever, someone who has been sitting by waiting for this to happen thinking they will come in and rescue....forget that! I don't need to get rescued, especially from someone that I truly cannot tolerate.
So I will now have to retreat and step back from something that has helped me a lot because I don't appreciate someone trying to pry into my life, stalkinga and cyberstalking me. I still will always pray and hope for treatment and recovery with my A...he may or may not get it, but either way, I love him and always will. Those of you on here know and understand that, this person does not. Some people pretend to care, but they want something in return, so it's not genuine....that is something i've learned over the past year.
Hope you can find a way to resolve this But you must do what you must do to protect yourself Wishing you the best in recovery and hope you are back soon Blessings
So sorry that you feel that your sense of security is threatened. I felt that my anonymity may have been compromised not all that long ago and considered changing my screen name here. It's a strange feeling, for sure.
I hope that you and the moderators can find a solution and you will be able to continue using this forum as a recovery tool.