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There could be an imposter among us


I feel there is someone on here under false pretenses.  I no longer feel safe to post on here, and how sad is that?  This has been my home for years to post my feelings about addiction and what's going on in my life and I no longer feel safe anywhere now.  My sense of security has been completely stripped, not only by an A, but by someone I wanted out of my life forever, someone who has been sitting by waiting for this to happen thinking they will come in and rescue....forget that! I don't need to get rescued, especially from someone that I truly cannot tolerate.

So I will now have to retreat and step back from something that has helped me a lot because I don't appreciate someone trying to pry into my life, stalkinga and cyberstalking me.  I still will always pray and hope for treatment and recovery with my A...he may or may not get it, but either way, I love him and always will.  Those of you on here know and understand that, this person does not.  Some people pretend to care, but they want something in return, so it's not genuine....that is something i've learned over the past year. 

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Do what you have to do to protect yourself sis...and do what you have to do to continue
on with your recovery.   In support.  ((((hugs)))) smile

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(((Shanda))) I'm so sorry you have to leave because of this situation. You are in my thoughts. :)

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So sorry that this has happened to you Shanda. Take care of you....

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Oh No Shanda what is going on? If you feel you can, pm tom aka Canadian guy. He can make it so this person cannot get in.

Please don't leave!
You have my private email if you need to talk. love,debilyn

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Hope you can find a way to resolve this
But you must do what you must do to protect yourself
Wishing you the best in recovery and hope you are back soon
Blessings

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((Shanda))


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Shandra will miss you, try to have them blocked as suggested, but if you have to go I understand, god bless you!

failte

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Please see and respond to the private message I sent to you, k?

John

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" And what did we gain?  A new life, with purpose, meaning and constant progress, and all the contentment and fulfillment that comes from such growth."

(Al-Anon's Twelve Steps & Twelve Traditions,Step 3. pg 21)

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So sorry that you feel that your sense of security is threatened. I felt that my anonymity may have been compromised not all that long ago and considered changing my screen name here. It's a strange feeling, for sure.

I hope that you and the moderators can find a solution and you will be able to continue using this forum as a recovery tool.



Summer

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Shanda - I have sent you a private message with my e-mail address if you need to vent or just need a "listening ear" - feel free to e-mail me.


Tish x

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