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I haven't been around in a while. Been trying to get divorced from my AH for 2 years now. The latest hold up is him giving the wrong wedding date at the deposition. Since it didn't match the actual date everything is on hold until he comes from out of state to sign something stating the correct date. I don' t know if he did it on purpose or his brain is just so fried that he really believes we were married on a different day of a different year that we actually were. Either way I again am the one who suffers.
Divorce can be quite trying. I know when I just went through it, I felt like they make it way too easy to get married, and way too hard to get away from someone ....
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You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. -Buddha
The past has flown away. The coming month and year do not exsist. Ours only is the present's tiny point. -Mahmud Shabistanri
During my divorce, my exH did things to delay proceedings because he knew it would upset me and he was trying to control me. I have a cousin whose exH did the same thing.
Hang in there, and try not to let it get to you. Just remember...you won't stay married to him forever!
Men and wedding dates?....isn't that an oxymoron? Maybe it's just a plain old moron but I've rarely met a man...including myself until the last one, who could remember a wedding date. It has to be a big deal like the bombing of Pearl Harbor or the assasination of a President or the dropping of the twin towers to be remembered something we didn't drink thru or over. Trying to remember any of that for or during a divorce for me almost required a drink. I think this is one for a HP. (((hugs)))
