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Nothing has really improved with my situation but I realize that I need to give Alanon 100% or order to work on myself..............I lost touch!
I'm going to HAVE to start going to face to face it's the only way at this point! My A still is drinking and it's getting worse we are still NOT together but I have let it all go to my HP because it's breaking me and I can't handle it/him anymore!
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Courage is not a roar. Sometimes Courage is the small voice at the end of the day that says "I'll try again tomorrow"
Welcome home Hopeless...missed you. Your post reminded me of a share at a recent meeting where the member said that prayer without effort was like asking for help while sitting on our hands. That was a wake up call for me.
Let us know how the 100% works for you...miracles usually start to happen I hear.
Your post has made me want to attend a meeting tonight. I wanted to blow it off to just lay around the house, but I don't have a schedule to go to very many.
You are completely right. Thank you for the reminder, and I wish you strength in getting moving again on the road to wellness.
Welcome back, nice to meet you. I have been here since July, first under one name, then I switched to this name. I am realizing more and more how much I need to be here. I try to check in every day. Take care of you!
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You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. -Buddha
The past has flown away. The coming month and year do not exsist. Ours only is the present's tiny point. -Mahmud Shabistanri
I need to get this rage out of me - I need to detach or I will never have a civil relationship with this person (we have a child together and I don't want my daughter raised like/with that)... I've givin this to my HP before and I'm looking forward to be able to do it again!
I do NOT want my A to have any power over me I will no longer allow it....
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Courage is not a roar. Sometimes Courage is the small voice at the end of the day that says "I'll try again tomorrow"