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I'm so sock of my job, well actually of my boss. He is a complete jerk and I have to put up with it, cause I really need the money and he gave me a loan and I'm still paying it. He is a bully and a psicological abuser. He asks me things like: Are you retarded? Where's your f-ing head? and yells all the time. I'm just tired cause I deal with a sick relationship at home, that is actually improving, and I have to deal with my boss' crap too. I don't think so!
I'm going back to school to try and apply for a better position somewhere else, even thou I know I will get less money, cause I've been here for 5 years and I get a good salary. Also I'm trying to talk my AH into giving me the money to start my own bussiness, which would be great cause that way I could spend more time with my daughter.
I'm really tired of this creep, my hair is falling out, my face is breaking out and I have a headache all the time. This guy stress me out more than my AH!!!
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Self-pity in its early stages is as snug as a feather mattress. Only when it hardens does it become uncomfortable.
Wow I am so sorry that your are experiencing this painful situation at your place of employment. If this is a large company, I am sure you know you can go to HR and request an intervention. This sounds like a small operation whereby you must deal directly with the Person.
I was at a meeting last night where someone shared her success with a Boss situation that upset her. Her boss called her a nick name she did not like. She used her tools and spoke her truth to him without being offesnive . She said she did not like the name and preferred to be called her given anme. He apologized and said if any other thing comes up in the futrue to please tell him.
Please pray about this and see if it would be possible to "Say what you mean , Mean what you say and not say it mean.
Wow I think we may have worked for the same person cause your post brings back memories of my old boss and all the abuse I took from him. I learned to document document document and then went to the HR office which started the ball rolling to get rid of this boss. I feel for you I really do. I would come home from work evryday and my husband would ask me everyday "did you quit or were you fired today?" But just refused to be bullied and I pushed back, he had abused enough people that I had all the ammunition I needed. Funny thing was when we would talk about non work related things he was a nice guy but those times were to few and far between Blessings to you
