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~*Service Worker*~

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D day tomorrow


 Well our home has remained calm, my son has stuck to the boundaries, and doctors orders re his alcohol intake....thats a first. Tomorrow his father is driving him the 100 miles to the detox unit. He wanted to get the bus but his consultant advised against it as he is to have minimal alcohol in the morning and she doesnt want to risk the chance of him having a withdrawal seizure. Its all pretty hellish really and Ill be glad when he leaves and gets the medical care he needs. Ive so had it with drink.....I hope he has. He knows death is sitting on his shoulder and any one of his seizures could be his last, so I hope he finds the courage to change.

I feel like a duck, serene on the surface but paddling like hell underneath. My aching shoulder and niggling sore head tell me Im knotted with tension. The resulting displacement activity since hes been home have given me this unrecognisable house with tidy cupboards, shining windows, up to date office work and a well tended garden......I started on the bookshelves yesterday but had to have a serious word with myself when I started musing about alphabetical order......bit of insanity creeping back!

Im knackered, and feeling incredibly sad.....but so grateful for the tools of the programme

Tomorrow I will take care of me.....I have a massage booked to unravel the knots!

Please keep us close 

 (((((hugs))))) Ness x



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Take care, Ness. Now is the time to look after you and what a good idea - booking a massage. Well done you.

Hoping and praying your son does well.

Tish xx

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It's funny when I read your description of yourself how it brings the memories of stress, anxiousness, and frustration can just come rushing back. no I so hope that things go well for you.  Enjoy your massage and remember that your son is now safe and getting the cares that he so desperately needs. I'll keep you in my prayers and pray for recovery for him and your family.  Peace.

When the world said give up, hope whispered, try one more time....

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(((Ness))


Prayers are being sent   I understand exactly how you feel for I too have cleaned excessively to stay sane. 

You and your family will be in my prayers.

Much Love

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((((Ness))))

I am glad your son is going to get the medical help he needs, and you are going to get a little TLC, you deserve it.

I love your description of the feeling like a duck "serene on the surface but paddling like hell underneath" fits perfectly.

Love to you and your family.

Dreams

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Prayers, Ness,

Keep up the good work focusing on yourself, and I hope you really enjoy your massage! You deserve it!



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(((((Ness)))))...smile

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(((Ness)))

So glad the day has finally come for your son to get some help. Getting a massage is such a wonderful idea for taking care of you.

It is funny how stress affects people differently. I wish stress did make me clean and organize things but instead it sends me to bed.

Take care of you. Your son's HP is with him right now.

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biggrinOh my gosh! I was just going to invite yourself to a massage!!!

yay!! hey come to my place please, after shoulder surgery and now on a stupid crutch, I look like I am living in the middle of a pasture! gads I am!

Would love you to come "share" that energy here...(o: debilyn

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TY smile

My massage knocked me into an almost comatose state and I've been snoring for Scotland since sleepy.gif sleepy.gif sleepy.gif 

((((((((((hugs)))))))))) Ness x



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(((Ness))),

What's wrong with organized bookshelves? wink  I admit, I haven't done my spice cabinet yet, but hey it's always a possibility!

As always prayers are coming your way for you & your family. pray.gif  Take a break from organzing & enjoy the serenity.  The time my beloved Tim was in rehab were the most serene days I had.  I was scared for him & us.  At least home was peaceful and I knew he was safe.  Do something extra special for yourself. Just for you.  Just because.  We have to take care of ourselves.  If that means staying in our jammies all day & eating ice cream.  Go for it.  We just need those days.  It's good for us.

Your son is in the right place, in the hands of professionals.  He's safe.  I hope his recovery will stick.  Much love and blessings to you and your family.

Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty aww


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Don't Karilynn laughing.gif...I have found myself looking at them again and thinking.......maybe!! I did the spices...........oh no. Do I need therapy I wonder wink

I'm still zonked after the massage so will be doing a lot more sleepy.gif

((((((hugs)))))))

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((( ness )))

So glad your son is getting the treatment he needs. I send you and son all the prayers and good vibes that I have that all goes well.
Am glad you are taking care of you smile.gif
God Bless

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A massage, what a wonderful idea. I will send prayers and positive energy to you and your son.

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