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The lesson was in acceptance...




The new mother board is installed...obviously and the computer is computing so from
my own desk I'm back in the MIP room with family.  I didn't cause it, couldn't control
it and couldn't cure it.  I had to have other people in my life to do for me what I could
not and would not do for myself.  Isn't that a lesson...LOL.  I didn't even have the
temptation to do for me what my HP had others available to do.  In the past my ego
and pride would have convinced me to go beyond where others have tread and so I
got honest and just accepted the fact of the situation, the condition of it and the
people who were available to a solution and did the walk.  I didn't just roll over and
play dead...I did my part as taught in the Family Groups and here at home in MIP
and accepted the reality of the situation including having to pay for time to get home
here and having to pay for the new board and installation (gulp) and it's done.

One of the acceptances was that I would not have my daily dose of MIP experience,
strength and hope and of course unconditional love and I learned it would and I would
be okay anyway.

I also met a person (my fixer) who had alot to talk about from where she came and
was grateful for the conversations.  "When anyone anywhere reaches out for help
let the hand of Al-Anon always be there and let it begin with me."   LOL you get
directed by HP even thru a busted Desktop.  My HP is cunning, powerful and
baffling.   Good to be home.    ((((((MIP))))))  smile

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Well Im glad your back, missed your wisdom and your quips.

Luv and hugs Bettina

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Welcome back JerryF

Acceptance........I'm working hard on that one today!

((((BSH))) Ness smile

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YAY!  Jerry is back!  MIP is not the same without you.

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Welcome back Jerry smile.gif

Jen

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Jerry that was "waaaaay" to long to be away from MIP. HP sent you a "fixer" who needed ES&H, so both of you had something to offer each other. Wonderful to have you back !!

Welcome Home,
RLC

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(((Jerry))), you were missed, so glad to have you back!

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((((Jerry))),

Welcome home. house.gif You have been missed greatly.  Now I can have my daily fix of Jerry. smile  Much love and blessings to you and your family.

Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty heart.gif


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Gone but not forgotten.

In support,
Nancy

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What a fantastic metaphor.  Thank you so much.  Glad you are back.

Maresie.

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((JerryF)))smile

Welcome Back  I really missed your wisdom and humor

S

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Thanks for being there for me tonight as I start this new way of life !

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Welcome home ((((Brother))))

You have been very missed! 

David

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((((((((((((Jerry))))))))))),

Welcome home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

With Hope,
Andrea

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