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So yesterday we both decided to stop arguing. We agreed we needed to get along if we are going to make this work. It was so easy to stop arguing and have been doing fine so far.
We even had some small talk and finally had dinner together again. It feels so good.
(( buick )) that is awesome! It can be so easy to argue all the time, to be critical or pick on each other. We do it to each other at times. I love when I can be detached enough to not fall for it and say, 'hey we dont need to argue about this' and choose to get along, like u have. I definetely try to pick my battles now a days and most things arent that important that it is worth fighting for. I walk away a lot from the comments he makes and I feel more empowered when I dont engage like that. If I do go there or pick on him, I try to apologize as soon as I can (usally when I calm down) bc I dont want to fight as a means of the dynamic we operate in and that can be easy, lazy dynamic to fall into but it never makes the parties feel good.
Good for you and keep working it ~ youre worth it, tc!
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