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information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. >When you > > know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. > > > > When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a >need > > you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a >difficulty, > > to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, > > emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they >are. > > They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without >any > > wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person >will say > > or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes >they die. > > Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to >take a > > stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our >desire > > fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been >answered > > and now it is time to move on. > > > > Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn >has come > > to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or >make > > you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. >They > > usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is >real. > > But only for a season. > > > > LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must >build > > upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is >to > > accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned >to use > > in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said >that love > > is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. > > > > Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, >a > > season or a lifetime.
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Life can only be understood backwards, But it must be lived forwards
Thank you for posting this-- it is beautiful. Something I've read a long time ago and is always nice to read again. In turn, I passed this onto my friends who I know in my heart will be lifetime relationships and said thank you to them.
Thank you for both your posts. I did read the other one yesterday but didn't have time to reply. They really had alot of meaning for me. I needed to read this one now for some reason. Thanks again, cdb :)