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Feel like this is home...(here)


Haven't posted in so long.  My AH has been for the most part in controlled drinking stage...the last year he has slipped more and more.  I made the decision to move out of our home.  When I told him in the begining of Nov. that I would be moving out come Feb or March ...he told me to GET OUT by the 1st of the year.  I sign my lease with my sister in-law (my husband's brother also has issues they have been seperated about 9 months) on the 30th of December. 
It's like my the fog has been lifted from my brain.  I am anxious, nevous, scared, and excited all at once.  I have been packing for weeks. 
I made the decision slowly, making sure I was doing it for me and not so he would change.  I realize he may never change and I will survive.  I am on a wonderful journey everyday. 
you probably will see more of me here as I work through feelings and experiences. 
Thanks for always being here. 

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Mary


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(((((Mary))))),
So good to hear from you.

My hub moved out in October. He said he wasn't going to stop using. So I asked him to leave. Our divorce will be final on 03/02.

Keep taking care of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yours in recovery,
Mandy

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God is seldom early, but he is never late.



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(((((Marmare)))))  always in support.  Merry Christmas and the happiest of One day
at a time.   I pray your alcoholic will find the door out of this insanity himself. 
(((((hugs))))) smile

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