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Starla


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Some may remember me as RainyJamie. Or not. My anonymity was compromised so I had to delete my account. I don't care, I'm moving on.

I filed for divorce and just told AH that he will be served. If he doesn't leave by Nov 31st I will leave with the kids. It is a huge deal as I am trying to take the house. It is more of a burden than asset currently and leaving it with him will kill him.

I have to be strong. FOr yars this has been going onevery week



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hotrod


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((((Dear Starla))

I remember your postings and am glad you have returned.  I am so very sorry that you are in this painful situation and will hold good thought s for you and your family.

Keep showing up and doing the "Next Right Thing". 

May the understanding, love and peace of this program sustain you during this difficult time.

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Betty

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Fifi


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hi RJ
i just came back to this site after awhile,too.
i send prayers of strength, peace and clarity.
glad you are able to be back,
fi


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Starla


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thanks so much. i just wonder how i let it get so out of contriol


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Jerry F


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Aloha RJ!!...Missed you and am glad you are back.  Stick around.  We don't have
any control remember.  Most times if it seem like things are getting out of
control its because I've been try to work it and it isn't comeing out the way I
want it.   Better to turn it and me over to HP as I understand HP and go do
something within recovery.     Welcome back home.    (((((hugs))))) smile

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Fifi


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"i just wonder how i let it get so out of control"
i sure do relate to this feeling.... but i always try and ask my seriously, how DID i let it get this way. i try and look for things i can identify and choose to try and do differently next time.
good luck and hope today is a better day.
as i told someone earlier today, change, good or bad, doesn't happen in a day.
be good to yourself and make the baby steps you need to.
fi


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