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Roomate is in denial


Roomate loves to drink and use pills, (wine beer, booze). It is all good. Any suggestions? Wouldn't mind so much if didn't have effect on the household. Has affected work, friends, all for decades. However, nothing is her fault, and all others are at fault.

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Virginia


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Hi Virginia,

Welcome to MIP and Alanon 

Here and at alanon  face to face meetings we gather to share or experience . strength and hope in order to solve our common problems.  We learn first of all that we are POWERLESS over others. 

I needed to learn to take the focus off others and to put my attention and mind only on myself and my actions.  That was when my life started to change and the insanity of this disease started to loose control on my life.  I learned the tools to change my life here and at alanon meetings.

Please try to attend alanon face to face meetings in your local community  A listing of the alanon headquarters in your area should be found in your local white pages..  There are meetings here twice a day and the chat room is open 24/7.

You can find help and serenity  Please keep coming back

 



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THE HIGHEST FORM OF WISDOM IS KINDNESS

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Al anon can help you a lot.  I live around alcoholics. Their denial is immense.  I have had to boundary up!

Maresie.

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