The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
The good thing is that I am now 3 sizes down and still shrinking. The bad things are where I am living, how I am living, isolation and lots of balls up in the air. I never could manage life with good and bad. Now I am having to and don't have much experience of being sucessful at it.
Wow!! 3 sizes down! That's wonderful. It shows what you are capable of with determination....and Lord knows it takes a lot of it.
I know your living arrangements are rough, for you. Maybe it would help to keep in mind that it's not for forever and this too shall pass. I'm sure there is something you can learn/take from your present situation that could help you in the future. If nothing else, tolerence.. You've managed to move forward and accomplish much while living there. I think you've been very strong and you are doing very well juggling the ups and downs. You just don't seem to be recognizing it.
Christy
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If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them. And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.
Life is full of ups and downs, good and bad, I guess if we didn't get the bad we wouldn't know how good we have it.....
Listen we never know what life will bring, try and stay focused on the good and hopefully there will be less and less bad.....tomorrow is a better day and today, well you are here you are alive so it's a good day......
Take care of you Marsie, Andrea
p.s. 2 sizes down is a wonderful day and by the way I will gladly give them back....lol