The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
2 years plus out from leaving the ex A finances are still a huge issue. I have major major dental work to get done. So I am looking at ways to save money. So far I've been able to find $50.00 a month off the top. I know I can save on my storage but it means doing a lot of work and I need to give myself 2 months minimum to do that. Of course I could have done that years ago but I didn't have the emotional strength. For the last two years I have been blaming the ex a for my plight and seething with self pity. Now is the time to take life by the handlebars and see what I can do. I'm taking action lots of it. Of course my life is still a huge huge mess but in time not too much time I'll have dug myself out of this hole and I'll have my own life rather than a life the exA ruined.
i'm glad you are taking action. it's hard to take action. you inspire me. good luck and not only take action but take it easy while doing it. sincerely, tonya
