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I've been really putting off getting the storage situation together. Now I've made progress the goal seems to be getting closer and things are happening for me. I know now when I get stuck I have to take action no matter how small and keep taking the action. I can just get marooned in my stuckness and not know a way out. What I've learned is that the way appears when I start taking action but not before then.
I couldnt agree more ((maresie)) the little things we do, the baby steps do help and make a difference. For me one of the sayings that helped me tremdendously is, you can do anything for fifteen minutes - then step back and re-asses it. That helped me get started on big tasks I had that looked like mountains when I was so completely overwhelmed & not coping with life. I used to call my "baby steps" - microscopic steps b/c that was how it seemed and still it helped.
I've also noticed that as long as I keep right on changing, the changes come easily & I'm more eager for them.
Making lists helped me get a sense of accomplishement even if it was only errands or obvious tasks... I got to cross things off & I started doing more and the self esteem got better as I took better care of myself.
Keep taking care of & focusing YOU.
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Light, Love, Peace, Blessings & Healing to Us All. God's Will Be Done. Amen.
I sooooooo relate to procrastination, there are so many things I'd just rather not have to face. Last week, a fellowship friend gave me a quote from her guru,
"See the work. Do the work. Stay out of misery."
These simple words have motivated me to do a lot! I have more to do, but what I have accomplished has relieved a significant amount of weight. I'm feeling much more brave today, as I review what I've crossed off my list.
Hope it helps.
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The prayer isn't for Higher Power to change our lives, but rather to change us.