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Just wanted to update and say sorry I haven't been of much help here of late, been very busy in some things and very annoyed in others...
Abrother now has the family in an up roar again, and I have backed out slowly but my Mom is still the Whip'n Post for everyone else. I am trying to deal with those feelings and work them out in my mind, but it is a constant struggle, I am sitting here now waiting to hear from my Mother who was to deliver my Abrother to Jail this morning because there was a warrant out for him skipping "Yet Another" Court date, and since my ASisters Boyfriend Bailed him out, they want to lock him up till they get a hold of Abrother... It is just a mess as always...
So it is a circus, and since I have backed out of the initial delivery and decission making, I now just get to sit here with the anger I have tords my ASister that put my mother right back in the middle... Yes Mom could have told her NO, but you don't know my ASister, she is a manipulating person that knows how to work my mother to the point of exhaustion and beat down...
I am just so Ticked right now, and Don't know what to do with myself...I step back but it never goes away, the disease keeps whip'n my family like an old horse whip... My Mom seems so defenseless in it all and it makes me sick to my stomach that my ASister does not see what she is doing to her, and honestly I don't think she cares...
Aurggg What a Sucky day this has been and it isn't even lunch time...
You have a lot going on. I know that situation. Like a hurricane is inside the house and the family. And the As just stand around and ask whats the matter?
Meetings and phone calls and detatchment helped me in the same or similar situations.
