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hi all, just wanted to update you guys. I hope all of you are doing good. Well, as some of you know I have been on a cleaning and decluttering spree for days now. It has been good for my soul!!! It's been my own way of moving forward. Like most of you all on here, I too do not want to have to make a decision on the big D word- I can't even "say" it. I just cant make myself go there right now. So-- I have chosen to live one day at a time and be ok with doing so. There's no harm in living in the NOW. My house is coming along wonderfully, most rooms are now decluttered and organized and now it's time to move on to painting and things like that. I have basically given or thrown out anything that when I look at it doesn't make me feel happy. It's been awesome! My AH is still drinking, but just this morning after his morning run he stated that he thought he needed to stop drinking beer every night. All I said was that I thought so too, and that I worry about him drinking so much. Well, he didn't say anything, he just rolled his eyes. I know this is normal, and I didn't say a word after that. I handled this very lovingly. So, there ya have it, that's my update! Thanks for being here everyone.
If its working...keep working it and don't forget to keep yourself wrapped up with your HP at the same time. The "D" word...LOL Detachment (program style) also starts with "D". (((((hugs)))))
Ha! Jerry- I wasn't even thinking of detachment called the "D" word!! too funny. And yes- you're right, I haven't forgot about my HP, afterall it's where my many blessings come from!
