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~*Service Worker*~

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A Parable by a Sponsor


Hi ((((Family))))

I read this yesterday and thought it was just a great visual for me to hold in my mind of why I need to keep coming back.  I wanted to share it with you all.

A Parable by a Sponsor

A member of the program of recovery, who previously had been attending  meetings regularly, stopped going.  After a few weeks, her sponsor decided to visit her.  It was a chilly evening and the sponsor found the sponsee at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire.

Guessing the reason for her sponsor's visit,  the sponsee welcomed her, led her to a big chair near the fireplace and waited.  Her sponsor made herself comfortable but  said nothing. In the grave silence, she contemplated the play of the flames around the burning logs.  After some minutes, the sponsor took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone.

Then she sat back in her chair, still silent.  The sponsee watched all this in quiet fascination.  As the one lone ember's flame diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more.  Soon it was cold and "dead as a doornail."

Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting.  Just before the sponsor was ready to leave, she picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire.  Immediately it began to glow once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it.

As the sponsor reached the door to leave, the sponsee said, "Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon.  I'll see you at the meeting in the morning."

-- Author Unknown



See you all at the meeting!

Davidsmile

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(((((david)))))

Totally, freakin' AWESOME!!

Thanks for sharing that with us!

hugs,

bg

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~*Service Worker*~

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A big LOL! RIGHT ON! hugs, J.

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~*Service Worker*~

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That's awesome and so true, I can't do it alone.

Thanks for sharing this!

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Thank you so much for sharing that. Just goes to prove that sometimes the most powerful message can be delivered with no words at all.

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LOL... love it!

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Wonderful David, I esp enjoy the meaning...how the silence can be used in a positive way.

Thank you for sharing it :)!


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Mahalo David...another tool!!  ((((((hugs)))))) smile

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POW!  

Wonderful message, lesson, example.  I choose to remember that  for all time. 

Thank you for  sharing.

Peggy7 


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Thank you David62!!!

Wonderful message and true, true, true!!!!!!!!!

Mrs. Grat


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~*Service Worker*~

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How fantastic to be that comfortable they don't have to fill up the air.

Maresie.

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WOW.. A very powerfull message.. One I will have to remember.. Somtimes the unspoken says more to us.. A good thing to remember..

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