The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
This is so me as well. But I hear TLCate. My therapist says it is perspective. You know the As have no problem admitting their faults and even forgiving themselves. We codependents seem to have the opposite problem and see faults where there are none and punish ourselves over and over for imaginary mistakes.