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Food for thought


 I realize each of us has our own politics. I would like to encourage you to put those aside for a minute as you think about 2 things for a minute.

  1. Today is the 20th anniversary of the Tiannemen Square massacre. To me, and this is strictly me, what stands out the most is that we still have no true count of how many individuals were killed in that terrible event.
  2. I read this in the news today:

NY store owner gives would-be thief $40 and bread 

GARDEN CITY, N.Y. A rifle-toting convenience store owner said he decided to show mercy on a would-be robber after seeing the man collapse into tears and claim he was only committing the crime to support his starving family.

The Long Island store owner provided the bat-wielding man with $40 and a loaf of bread and made him promise never to rob again.

"This was a grown man, crying like a baby," Mohammad Sohail, owner of the Shirley Express convenience store about 65 miles east of New York City, told The Associated Press in a telephone interview on Tuesday.

The man dropped the bat, picked up the bread and tucked the $40 into his waistband before fleeing, said Suffolk County police Sgt. John Best.

Sohail, who moved to the United States from Pakistan about 20 years ago, said he was getting ready to close his store shortly after midnight on May 21 when the man in his 40s entered with a bat in his hand. Sohail said he tried to stall for a moment and then grabbed a rifle he keeps behind the counter and ordered the assailant to drop the bat.

The would-be thief dropped to his knees and begged for forgiveness, Sohail said.

"He started crying that he was out of work and was trying to feed his hungry family," he said. "I felt bad for him. I mean, this wasn't some kid."

He said he tossed $40 to the man, who then stood up and told Sohail he was inspired by the act of mercy and wanted to become a fellow Muslim. Sohail said he led the man in a profession of Muslim faith and the two ended up shaking hands.

Sohail said he went to the back of the store to get some milk to give to the man, but when he returned the man had fled. He said he called police and reported the attempted robbery, but he doesn't want to press charges if the man is ever caught.

Best said detectives have reviewed a store surveillance video of the attempted holdup, but said it would be difficult for anyone to identify the suspect because he was wearing a mask.

Sohail, who said he had never been the victim of a robbery attempt, said he didn't expect any accolades for what he had done.

"I'm a very little man. I just did a good job," said the married father of one. "I have a good feeling in my heart. I feel very good."

  Food for thought about where we live and how we live today.



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This bad economy has made a lot of  otherwise good people bad!!! What goes around does come around..the greedy ones who caused all this will get theres...All I can do is try and contribute as much as I can and PRAY!!!!

I will defend life and limb...God forbid we have had 2 to 3 home robberies near me and 2 on my street...I have dogs and guns...I will protect me whatever force I need to do to protect me...I cannot "take the chance" that they will drop their weapon and ask me to forgive them....I gotta play the %'s and defend...

I pray to God every day, I am not forced to have to use deadly force....I pray for those out of work and desperate....I try to tithe more to help...I try to give when I can safely give...

This is such a tragedy...People out of work having to resort to crime...I can relate...This past 2 years have been hell for me, trying to support myself...I thank my God and my program, and my hard work my HP is seeing to it my needs have always been met...

I am touched by those brave men doing what they did, but I am a small, 62 year old female, maybe 110# and I cannot take chances......Someone comes at me w/ a weapon, I am gonna do what I can to take care of me....

Now I am talking about home invasions.....the store robberies?? I don't know WHAT I would do...I guess I would have to let HP guide me....I pray I never find myself in either position....

-- Edited by rosielightshines on Wednesday 3rd of June 2009 11:51:47 AM

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Personally I think what the man did was wonderful,  I saw this on the news today.

The man went in the store with a bat, obviously not your typical robber.  He didn't have a gun.

Hey God Bless the Store owner, and the man...may God help him find a job.

Andrea

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god help us all

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Jean4444 wrote:

god help us all




oh AMEN!!!! I do pray for the unemployed...Been there..Done that....Had to file for early SS and now work PT b/c the economy forced me to....Thank God I was just old enough to get early SS......



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Maria

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