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Okay, for the first time since November, I had my 7 days of much liked solitude. (hubby went offshore)

Well, he is coming home tomorrow.  I am a little nervous.  I am trying to not have any expectations or projections of this or that. 

It is our anniversary tomorrow.  Amazing we've been married for 7 years. 

I hope all goes well.

Sincerely,


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Jean4444


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my best thoughts are with you, dear one. all will be well. hugs, J.

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Inpain


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Hi Sincerely,

Sending cyber hugs and peace!!

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debilyn


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For as long as I could, I would cut out the bad stuff and glean the good.

You will find some good I am sure! love,debilyn

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abbyal


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Jeeeeze girl will u relax and just be yourself .  enjoy your time with husb. if he drinks it has nothing to do with you , remember to practice  What would I be doing right now if this werent happening ? and do it .  YOur life can't stop and start with him being OK .  Focus on your own needs and your gonna be just fine . and remember  Just for today you will accept what is and ajust yourself to it . the only thing u can change is your reaction to it ( attitude ) .  Enjoy   Louise

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glad lee


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Sincerely, you may not realize it, but you have grown, girl!

Nothing happens without purpose. This appears to be an OPPORTUNITY for you to use the tools you have, to let your program shine.

Don't drop HP's hand. Invite him into it all. A Power greater than ourselves, greater than alcoholism, greater than a crazy man coming home to his wife.

Remember, what you focus on... gets bigger. So, focus on the good stuff. (((hugs)))

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