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Honestly... I don't know if I am Mad, Hurt, Pissed, or just clear wore out...I think all thee above really... I haven't been on for a couple days, been to much going on with Deseased Afathers "CRAP"... Just when I thought things were looking up, I have realized I was yet again WRONG...
NOW after COUNTLESS trips the MVA to get a title for my fathers Only possision his Mobile Home... They now tell me that THERE IS NONE... I swear I am about to pull my hair out... Why can't it just STOP... Everything is "YES" Out of my Control... I have got the run around by 10 differant people, about got hawled out the MVA by security for the fact that I think the F-word may have flip'd a few of them out for I could tell you how many times it was said... I am just TIRED OF IT... I want it to go AWAY
Topping was, my neice & nephew made it back from their trip to FL.. "Very Grateful for see their little faces"... To find out that She is Taking them BACK to FL...It crushes me to think that they will be down there with NO ONE to look after them, when she desides to go back to her usual way of life...She is also an A... I NO It is not my call.. But the Pain in my Heart kind of makes it that way... And my Nephew BEGGED me today to Not Let her TAKE HIM... It broke my heart I cried so hard... he doesn't want to leave us... We are all the family he has... Makes me sick on my stomach...
AND... My Step Mom who was going to sign for my Sister to get the trailer with NO TITLE...Now Desided that She WILL NOT SIGN because she wants my sister to move home instead, and my sister is Dead Set against going home.. For her Mom is a Control Freak... And I am the Yoo Yoo... But Heck... I guess if there is NO TITLE that can be found or pulled up, then I am Not responsible, for any of it, but I have already invested SOOOO much time and money in this it is making me crazy... I have been reading, and my meeting are not till the end of the week, in my area... I am always working for the morning one on line, and the ones at night I am usually to tired to get too...
It is making me nuts... HOW CAN THERE BE NO TITLE... I spoke to my Grandma, and she told me she stood beside him when he applied for it and got it, so She KNOWS there is one... But there Frick'n Computer can't find it... What am I to doo... I called the "Will" office and she is going to talk to the courts on Friday...but till then I am On HOLD again... I just want this over... Why can't it just be over...
My husband has desided not to speak to me, for the fact that I am TOTALLY engrossed in this mess... NOT A MESS I ASK FOR... I have to keep rolling with it, but fear when its over, so may we be... He doesn't understand the steps, I have tried to explain the things I have to do, he thinks I can just walk away, and if that was the case then I would have been LONG GONE BY NOW... I don't Want This MESS at All... So now with all the crap the estate is making me deal with.. The Kids Leaving and my Husband being an A@@... I just don't know which in is up...
Thanks for listening.. Hope if made sense to someone, cause I am just at a loss... I got busy... And now... They slammed the door on me once more and I sooo Don't know what to do now!!!!
Jozie, I hear your pain and frustration. It does appear as if everyone is backing out of each arrangement and the problems keep multiplying. I am so sorry. I know that you ar just trying to do the right thing and attempting to find that has lead to your pain.
If your father had a Title at one time is it possible that when he rented the space at the trailor park they might have requested a copy of the title and they might have it? Is there a VIN number anywhere on the trailor? Usually with the Vin # Make and Model of a car you can call the Company and request a title. Other than that I hope the will office can offer suggestions. Believe it or not this will end. Just try to take care of your priorities
- First things First and Let Go and Let God with the rest of the stuff.
Maybe teach your nephew how to call collect before he has to go? Make sure he knows he can always do that? that's something you CAN do... Or give him one of those stuffed animals with a zipup pouch, & be sure your address & phone are in it...
Honestly... I don't know if I am Mad, Hurt, Pissed, or just clear wore out...I think all thee above really... I haven't been on for a couple days, been to much going on with Deseased Afathers "CRAP"... Just when I thought things were looking up, I have realized I was yet again WRONG...