The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I'd like to share with you people who have helped me so much through your continued posting on here sharing what's really going on.
I yesterday realised how far along the way I come due to working my program. I openly admitted fault to playing games and the lying about my deepest feelings/reactions towards my ex/ahb. This I found in the past was what I used to keep the big secret of the life that went on behind closed doors with my previous alc longterm boyfriend.
Yesterday I let it all go and now I gain respect for who I am and may now be able to keep friendship that I felt was doomed due to both of us being honest about our actions in playing the hurtful controlling games that cause so much hurt. Straight talk leaves the fear behind.
Thanks al-anon it really does work when you apply the tools to your everyday life.
Progress not perfection for myself as I feel that I do go back and forth from step one to three. That's okay it's work works for me today.
Thanks for the share.
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Courage is the discovery that you may not win, and trying when you know you can lose.
Thanks for your share :) , and thank you for sharing your "ESH", alot of us here struggle on a daily basis, I know I usually do... So seeing someone using the Al-anon Tools is a wonderful thing to be reminded of... I think I could get buzy myself... WIshing you Happiness and Love :)
