Good day MIP family~
Woke up early and thought I would stop by and let you know that the date with EXABF went well.  We had a nice dinner, watched a movie and he went home.
We didn't discuss anything as far as us or reconciling or anything-though he did say something about if we decided to keep seeing one another that I would have to tell my son (I did not tell my son I was going out on a date with EXABF last night)

It was a pleasant time, he asked to see me again.  I told him yes but made it clear that my feelings about dating one another and others at the same time were the same as before.  I could not be a part of seeing him and other people too.  That that does not make me comfortable and it is not fair to any involved.  He said he understood and we left it at that.  So we shall see......what will be will be. 

I sent him an email this am. thanked him again for nice time, and the CD (he got me a cd with a song on it that reminded him of me-which I thought was sweet), and made it clear how I felt about things and what I have to offer.  The choice is his to make now.  He could call me and say he wanted back in our lives and I would be elated, or he could not call at all, and thought sad, I would be fine and trust in HP will for me. 

I wanted to thank you all for going with me last night, (the squeezing that hand thing and thinking of you guys and the program when I was feeling uncomfortable was a wonderful idea)  However I must not be really good at it yet cause I got busted-lol......

I am off to enjoy another beautiful God given Spring day......
thanks for letting me share and thank you all for being there every step of the way:)
Keeping it simple
shelly