The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
As you all know my living situation is less than desirable. A friend of mine has recently been laid off (who hasn't) and I am hoping he might offer to rent me a portion of his house again. I haven't asked. I 'm not going to ask but if he offers I'll take it. I've been really busy setting up a plan a, b.c. I didn't even think of a d.
I have heard nothing from the job I interviewed for. The job would be perfect for me and a real help to the way of getting a place of my own. I just have to turn it over. Normally I'd be obsessed. I know I did my best and I have an idea the competition is stiff out there. I'm working a plan a, b.and c and being open. Normally I'd be so full of fear and rage and anger. Being busy means I can't be.
I interviewed last week. It would be a welcomed change but I would be in the same dept. as my AHsober who left. I thought that I interviewed well. I know I need to keep the focus on myself. And listen to my HP about what to do. On one hand I think that my HP wants me there so I can see my AHsober for what he really is. On the other hand I enjoy the job that I have. What I am learning is to not be afraid to make those different plans.
I just read the other day things to help people get jobs..
One I recall was that it may be helpful to send or drop off a note to the person that interviewed you, thanking them and telling them you appreciated the opportunity.
Can't hurt!!
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