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Post Info TOPIC: plan a, b, c, and then what if something else comes up.


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plan a, b, c, and then what if something else comes up.


As you all know my living situation is less than desirable. A friend of mine has recently been laid off (who hasn't) and I am hoping he might offer to rent me a portion of his house again.  I haven't asked.  I 'm not going to ask but if he offers I'll take it.  I've been really busy setting up a plan a, b.c. I didn't even think of a d.

I have heard nothing from the job I interviewed for. The job would be perfect for me and a real help to the way of getting a place of my own.  I just have to turn it over.  Normally I'd be obsessed.  I know I did my best and I have an idea the competition is stiff out there.  I'm working a plan a, b.and c and being open.  Normally I'd be so full of fear and rage and anger.  Being busy means I can't be.

There is magic in this program.

Maresie.  

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I interviewed last week. It would be a welcomed change but I would be in the same dept. as my AHsober who left. I thought that I interviewed well. I know I need to keep the focus on myself. And listen to my HP about what to do. On one hand I think that my HP wants me there so I can see my AHsober for what he really is. On the other hand I enjoy the job that I have. What I am learning is to not be afraid to make those different plans.

In support,
Nancy

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I just read the other day things to help people get jobs..

 One I recall was that it may be helpful to send or drop off a note to the person that interviewed you, thanking them and telling them you appreciated the opportunity.

Can't hurt!! 

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Way to go ((((((Mare))))))),

love your optimism, keep working it,
Maria

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HI Christy: I certainly do send thank you notes. The issue is the job market is very competitive.  Standing out is difficult.

Maresie.

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