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mum2leahnjosh


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He left a week ago and although I seem to be getting better I still have my ups and downs. I find it easier to concentrate on college work and I can keep the house cleaner there is less washing and ironing to be done but I do relly miss him. Thanks everyone for your kind words.

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Rocky38


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It's good when we can get through the ups and downs and still think of ourselves as doing ok. It's a great sign of a strengthening recovery.

Hugs Rocky

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maresie


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Good for you for speaking your feelings so clearly.  No one said this was going to be easy.  Some days I do better with my feelings than others.
Maresie.

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Jean4444


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concentrate on your college work!!!! Its YOURS and its going to be so important to YOU and YOU ALONE. Put all your eggs in that basket, missy, mark my words!! Hang in there and when you feel lousy- STUDY! Hugs, J.

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(((Mum)))

Hugs & Prayer... Keep working on you and sooner or later... You will pull it thru... Your in the right place...YOu have done proved you have strength... Keep moving forward...

Friend in Recovery...
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I always take care of myself when my A isn't around. Keep moving forward. It's a great thing. I never noticed it when i was without him. It's times like this when i am with him and he is active that i realized how much better off i was without him.
good luck!

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mum2leahnjosh


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Thank you everyone. I knoww I am better off without him. It better alround for me and the kids.My daughter asks where he is but she seems to be ok. She seems to be resilliant to change. When I had josh she just continued as mormal. Which is a good thing of course as I was worried she would be upset (about daddy leaving). I told her daddy has gone to stay with nana and I asked if that was ok and she said yes bless her. She is 3 and alhough she is a wear of him not being here im not sure if she understands. Better he left now than in a few years time.

Thanks for your kind words

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