The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Testing In Progress...... 10 years and counting...life with an A....still in progress Met A's family, all addicts. passed, check Took care of A's mother while dieing with cancer. passed, check A had an affair. passed, check He filed for divorce, didn't divorce. passed, check I filed for divorce, didn't divorc. passed, check A's brother died from cancer, thought A was gonna kill himself, didn't kill himself, got back into program. passed, check Xwife, step kids, child support. passed, check Infertility. still in progress Surgery on A's Knee. still in progress Mean dog fighting with Racoon in back yard. still in progess My Job and Co Workers. still in progress
I get it! I am patiently taking the test. I don't ask GOD why. I am cool with it. I would just like to know how many more I have to take to graduate.
WOW... Sounds like you would have tons of wisdom to share...I can't say as I have dealt with the things on your plate, however, I bet half the people here could relate to one or two them... You must have some kind of strength right now in your life...Sounds like focus on "YOU" is well over due...
Sending Prayers your Way.... (((((Sincerely)))))
Missing Out
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Forgiveness- Isn't about forgettingwhat happened,its about Giving Up,All Hope,of a Better Past!
I don't think I call it testing anymore. If I meet someone and they have a substance abuse issue the boundaries come down. I guess the test is over for me. I am no longer willing to go round and round and round.