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Testing In Progress


Testing In Progress......
10 years and counting...life with an A....still in progress
Met A's family, all addicts. passed, check
Took care of A's mother while dieing with cancer. passed, check
A had an affair. passed, check
He filed for divorce, didn't divorce. passed, check
I filed for divorce, didn't divorc. passed, check
A's brother died from cancer, thought A was gonna kill himself, didn't kill himself, got back into program. passed, check
Xwife, step kids, child support. passed, check
Infertility. still in progress
Surgery on A's Knee. still in progress
Mean dog fighting with Racoon in back yard. still in progess
My Job and Co Workers.  still in progress

I get it!  I am patiently taking the test. I don't ask GOD why.  I am cool with it.  I would just like to know how many more I have to take to graduate.

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With love in recovery, 

Sincerely



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WOW... Sounds like you would have tons of wisdom to share...I can't say as I have dealt with the things on your plate, however, I bet half the people here could relate to one or two them... You must have some kind of strength right now in your life...Sounds like focus on "YOU" is well over due...

Sending Prayers your Way....
(((((Sincerely)))))

Missing Out

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 Hi ((((Sincerley))))

Loved your post, it made me smile  smile 
Your going to graduate with honours and a distinction.


Love Carol



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I don't think I call it testing anymore. If I meet someone and they have a substance abuse issue the boundaries come down.  I guess the test is over for me.  I am no longer willing to go round and round and round.

Maresie.

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maresie


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That's an inventory!!

The new's is that we continue walking down the aisle.  This is called a
journey (trudging the happy road of destiny).  We don't get to graduate.

The road is wide and you're not alone.

(((((hugs))))) smile

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Warm Bed! Cozy A/C!
Rest In Peace Racoon, Dog Won!
Thanks All!
It's been a long day!
So glad its over!
Whoo Hoo!

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With love in recovery, 

Sincerely

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