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Hi all I have had a very good day to day. Work is going ok and home live is still the three of us ( myself and the 15g, and 18b) my AH is still at his mothers and not like it but that is his problem.
New problem and handleing it? The girl is in chours and having fun but dose not want dad to come see her. I an letting her handle it not telling AH. But I kind of feel like I an letting him down in not telling him that his daughter is having chours show. But I would feel just as bad of her know that I told him and he goes to one and then makes fun of her about it so I just have to be in the Middle and keep my head down out of the line of fire of or wen it happens.
But all in all face to face meetings are going good and almost know who i want to ask to sponcer me of they will and if not there is a back up one.
Good growth!! For me it would be okay to let the daughter make he own decision and respect it and let it go. You might be feeling that you are compulsed to rearrange it but you don't. He can be at his moms. She can be in chorus and you can be talking to your new sponsor. All you gotta do is ask without expectations.
