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Thanks for sharing Deb. I know this feeling too. I am trying to detach from my AH, with the evidence of the reason to all around me. Everyday, in every way. Yet, I can still find myself thinking about "the perfect christmas gift" for him. Unbelievable!
(Deb)))))))) I could write the book on "giving yourself away". I've done it too many times, but I'm not going to go back there anymore. Ever. By the Grace of God.
By the way, that has always been one of my favorite songs.....and music has always helped me heal......whether it is a sad song, angry, happy, it always helps me sort out my emotions.
Love you.
Don't give yourself away. If he does, that is his business. YOU are worth more than that.