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When my whole family passed on, except my two kids, a wonderful gal adopted me. She became mom. I was very very blessed. I lost her two years ago.
Her husband is my Dad. He has Ms. and is miserable in pain of all sorts.So far they don't know why.
He had an emergency going to the hospital. I could not find him, he is 3 hours away, has a son and many friends...two days...from the first, "let go and let God, for me that is Jehovah.
I immediately did all I could,and knew I wanted to give it over. Felt so good, but of course I still am sad, and miss him.
He did call, I pray he is not ready to go. He has been lost without mom. I know he does not care.
He has told me things, or shared things I only know.
anyway the tools of AA and Al Anon for me, entered "every" part of me, of course the Bible is first for me, and alanon helped me to understand the one day at a time, do not have anxiety as I know, no matter what things will be ok. To love me so I can do one of the most important spiritual things. Love my HP with all my heart and all my soul, and To love my neighbor as myself.
If you would, my dad is Don. He has volunteered and he and mom have supported so many people. Helped people not lose their home, fed people, helped my sanctuary big time.He is my best friend and my human father. When he goes, that is that again.
I hope hp will put others in my path. thank you. love,debilyn dons daughter
I'm sorry about your father. I lost my godfather 3 years ago who was like my father and it still saddens me but I belive he is watching out for me taking care of me. I will pray for him.
I will send up prayers to HP for your adoptive father Debilyn and for you too. He sounds like a wonderful person, helping so many people. As you have Debilyn, thanks for posting and being so giving of your ESH.
I am so sorry about your father. I know you love and care about him a lot. You and your father are in my prayers. Stay strong and keep us updated, please. We all love you here!! I remember in your post about the pig rescue that you had stopped by his house on the way, is that right? I am also sending you positive thoughts, lean on us, we are all here for you!
Thankyou for your responses. (Yes wild I did get to see him. HE is so precious to me.)
He is being weaned off pain pills as his digestive system is having trouble. So now his MS hurts bad....
He is a very witty, busy, intelligent man. So this is so hard on him. I told him today I would load up a livestock trailor with all of us and some of my stuff and come live there in an rv or something as long as he needed. I mean it. I also told him he could live here in my main house.
He is not a man who would survive in a nursing home. His pets are his family as mine are.
He has a pot pig who is always on his couch, a HUGE Irish Wolfhound/lab sooo cute with a wirey beard, black a mastiff/rottie and a tiny chi and his eclectis bird who adores him....
They keep him going and laughing. So I would want to help him be with them.
and most important, he puts up with me...has helped me with sooooo many things. He is who I ask first about most things.
