Well my abfsober and I had an argument today. My friend who is staying at my ex's house with her family called me today and said that my daughter had asked her to call me to ask me if I could come by and bring her something she really needed. My daughter is at her dads this week. So I told my bf I was going to bring my daughter what she needed. I rushed back home, for one because I don't like going to my ex's house and for two because I knew my bf doesn't like me going there, which I understand.

When I got home he started arguing. He said that I shouldn't go to his house. I told him I went to take care of what my daughter needed, for her, and that it had nothing to do with my friend, my daughters dad, or anyone else. He said he thinks my friend wanted me to come by so her and my daughter can try and get me and my ex back together. The truth is my friend and her family do not like staying there, my friend does not get along with my ex. They moved here from another state and are working on getting the money together to get their own place.

I told my bf he is not going to keep me from what I decide to do, and that I thought he was jelous. As I am thinking about the argument more, maybe he really is worried that I would get back together with my ex (which is not going to happen). Maybe that's just the way he expressed his concerns. Or maybe he doesn't want me to have this friend.

What made me feel better was that I told him exactly what I thought and I did not hold back even though we ended up yelling at eachother. The strange thing is nowdays since he has quit drinking, we don't stay mad at eachother for long. He tried to be nice a minute after the argument, but I was still upset.

I have to add, I have been to the ex's house a few times (which the bf knows about) to see my friend. I do stay away from the ex though. I don't hide me going there from my bf. The last time I was there before today I have decided I would not go over there at all anymore, well I will help out my daughter if she needs me. Yes her dad could have done the same for her, but she asked for me and that made me feel good.

I told my bf that I will be there for my child when she needs me and if he doesn't like it that's his problem. I guess I am also learning from our arguments (which are far less nowdays) that he does have a right to his own opinion whether I like it or not. I think he was also upset because it is friday and he didn't have long before he had to go to jail for the weekend. He's always a 'pain' on fridays.

So I'm not going to stay mad at him about it, I will accept his opinion, I told him mine, and we'll see how it goes when he comes back Sunday.