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Hello family, In my last post, I was angry, frustrated and working towards a solution, or him seeing MY point of view. Well, he did, he is not happy about it, but whats done is done. I am now the owner of a 2001 Nissan Altima, totally paid for and totally in my name. Though he is unhappy about this, and has continued at every opportunity to let me know just how unhappy he is, its MINE and as far as I am concerned, it is one step closer to my peace of mind and my sanity....and of course, my independence. This last, is I believe, what has been the stuck point for him. If I dont have to depend on him for making my jeep payment, then I am free to leave. I honestly feel that was really the whole issue with him in the first place, well that and he doesnt get what he wants...control. I am working hard on my plans, and now that I am one step closer, it feels as though things will finally fall into place soon. At least now I know that if I choose to stay, I am doing it without strings attached and without being forced to for financial reasons. I am on my way to taking back my life...yay for me! seeking peace, jeannie
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