I havent posted in a while concerning the situation with my ex A B/F but this morning I felt I needed to. I guess just to vent and reach out for some suggestions on how to deal with whats about to happen.

Although I havent spoken with my ex or anyone in his circle of family and friends in a while (been super busy enjoying life with my current boyfriend and my children) I got a message from his mom this morning, out of the blue.  I havent spoken with her in so long and for her to call me out of the blue either meant 1 of 2 things.  Either my ex A B/F was in trouble (again) or something was up with her.  I was curious, so I phoned her back.

Apparently my ex A B/F is coming home from Rehab in California next Monday.  She called to let me know and to tell me that he's been trying to reach me and hasnt been successful. (I have been avoiding his calls and not returning them--not to be mean but because I really am having a good time and didnt want to start consuming myself with thoughts of him again).  She also asked if I would pick him up from the airport. Very odd!  I dont know why she would ask me to pick him up.  I declined.  She didnt seem happy, but I am not his taxi service.  She can go pick him up or one of his friends can.

After speaking with her, my curiosity is going a bit nutty this morning.  Why did she call and ask me to pick him up?  What are her reasons behind this? Did he ask her to? Or was it her idea to try to get us back together?

I know he had a choice of rehab or jail, and obviously he chose rehab.  I think the duration was supposed to be 6 months.  He wasnt in rehab for 6 months, far from it!  Does this mean that when he comes home next week he has to go to jail to serve his sentence? Or will he be able to resume his normal life? 

I think the only reason he went to rehab out in California was to stay out of jail back home.  I'd think the system is smarter than that, but maybe I'm wrong.

I know he's going to continue trying to contact me and I just hope if and when I decide to answer the phone, the reason for him calling is for the right reasons and not because he thinks he can walk back into my life continue where we left off because he knows I am happily dating someone and that would disrespect me and my boyfriend.