The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
It appears I have ruffled some feathers and that was not my intention.
I need to be more gentle with my words sometimes, and I will try hard to work on that.
I would like to clarify that the questions I had asked cherrygirl30 in an earlier post of hers was not because I was 'following' her around the internet, or 'searching' for posts by her elsewhere.
She happened to post in the same three forums that I frequent as well as here, on a daily basis.
I'll be more considerate of what I post here from now on, and be more compassionate to the newcomer.
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"If a dog will not come to you after having looked you in the face, you should go home and examine your conscience." - Woodrow Wilson
In Al Anon we call it taking our own inventory. We get so used to trying to figure out the A's behavior, sometimes it filters to others.
Even though it is hard to expect, al anon is a confidential group. It is important not to expose anyones private internet life.
I have had to apologize too for behaviour I goofed over on here too. We are all learning, we have to make mistakes to learn some things, and learning can be very uncomfortable.
thank you for apologizing. just makes us love you more!! hugs,debilyn
