The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I always get excited when a hurricane is coming. I think this is part of my drama/chaos addiction. I can feel the thrill of excitement in the air as it closes in, no fear just anticipation. I know that's kinda silly considering the destruction and danger that comes with them, but I can't help myself.
So my life used to be frequent chaos and now it's the rare hurricane, I guess this is progress? Not to mention this time it's HP dishing out the chaos and not the A. AND I can see the hurricane coming and prepare, with the A I was always blindsided. And this chaos I KNOW I CAN'T CONTROL or FIX!!!
Nope, you can't control or fix it, but the analogy is still a good one....
Similar to living around addiction, you CAN take appropriate measures of education and information gathering (Al-Anon), take appropriate safety measures for you and your dependants, and/or choose not to participate (i.e. evacuation).
Interesting.....
Tom
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I don't know that I am addicted to chaos and drama. I think I am used to it, it feels familiar like home. Now I tend to stay away from it but its been a big learning curve for me.
Good analogy. I've always loved watching storms come in. Somehow the world seems sweeter after a storm be it snow, rain or wind. We are expecting the remanants of Gustav tomorrow. I love a good rainy day. Piper of course, will be out playing in the rain! lol I remember once when I was out visiting a friend in Tucson. A monsoon came through with all the lightening. It was sooo cool. I'm out in the yard amazed at the wonder of it all. My friends thought I was nuts. I decided to finally come in when the lightening struck a cactus just over the fence. But then watching a saguaro cactus burn was pretty cool too. Sigh.... I'm hopeless. Have a great time, but be careful and stay safe. Love and blessings to you and your family.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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