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1- AN INCREASED TENDENCY TO LET THINGS HAPPEN RATHER THAN MAKE THEM HAPPEN . 2-FREQUENT ATTACKS OF SMILING. 3- FEELINGS OF BEING CONNECTED WITH OTHERS AND NATURE 4-FREQUENT OVERWHELMING EPISODES OF APPRECIATION 5-A TENDENCEY TO THINK AND ACT SPONTANEOUSLY RATHER THAN FROM FEARS BASED ON PAST EXPERIENCE. 6-AN UNMISTAKABLE ABITLITY TO ENJOY EACH MOMENT . 7-A LOSS OF ABILITY TO WORRY 8-A LOSS OF INTEREST IN INTERPRETING THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS 9-A LOSS OF INTEREST IN JUDGING OTHERS 10-A LOSS OF INTEREST IN JUDGING SELF 11-A LOSS OF INTEREST IN CONFLICT 12-GAINING THE ABILITY TO LOVE WTHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN.
All true statements. That number 7 gets to me sometimes but not too often. I do my best to catch myself and know that it does me absolutely no good to go there.
Christy
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If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them. And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.